About Get Ready For Love

The Love Coaching Programme

Get Ready For Love

Get Ready For Love is a coaching programme designed by TJ Gibbs, Founder of The Love Coach, to help clients prepare themselves, emotionally and psychologically, to meet their ideal partner. Utilising both her own journey of heartache and her experience from seeing many clients struggle with the same problems and situations, TJ applied her skills as a cognitive hypnotherapist and neuro-linguistic programming practitioner to develop a love coaching pathway for those looking for authentic and compatible love.  

Online Course

Discovering how and why we do the things we do in life and love are half the battle to changing them. The Get Ready For Love Coaching Programme enables clients to uncover the truth behind their behaviours, attitudes and choices.  This also gives back the control needed to change unhealthy patterns and truly become ready to give and receive love again. 

The tools Get Ready For Love provide, allow clients to identify the unconscious behaviours and programming in their lives which may have lead to poor love choices and repeated heartache. This early life programming doesn’t purely relate to the love of a partner, but extends to all loving relationships - such as parents, siblings, friends, and even mentors; ultimately shaping the way we love.  Early negative experiences in any of these relationships can shape future love choices.  Get Ready For Love teaches clients to hit the metaphorical reset button, let go of past heartache and re-evaluate, not only how to love, but who is truly deserving of that love going forward.

As happiness can only come from taking control of what we want and need from life and love, many clients experience "Eureka" moments as they systematically uncover why they have been getting the results they have been getting with love so far.  


Here are just some of the amazing personal discoveries you can expect from the Get Ready For Love coaching programme, 

  • Identify your current Life & Love Happiness Rating
  • Highlight the areas of both love and life where personal avoidance is causing unhappiness
  • Reveal your “Love Filter” - discover the truth of how you predominantly screen both life and love. This could be through a visual (what you see), audio (what you hear) or kinaesthetic (how you feel) filter.  Understanding the way this information is processed, can explain how relationship dynamics were formed previously, and help prepare you to relate differently in future relationships
  • Identify your “Top Core Values” which, if compromised, can affect your happiness and peace in both love and life 
  • Uncover which of Dr Gary Chapman’s Love Languages you speak in relationships, showing how you personally give and receive love.
  • Create a profile of, and evaluate, your soul’s ideal mate.  Then compare this model against your current or /past partners to determine Soul Mate compatibility. 
  • Understand the law of attraction and how becoming “that which you want to attract in the world” is key to finding your soul’s mate
  • Learn how meditation can help you get back in touch with the truth of who you are, and what you need from love.
  • Discover how much you truly love yourself, the key foundation for building a lasting healthy relationship with someone else

This is not an exhaustive list of what you can expect from the Get Ready For Love coaching programme. By also examining your “Soul Action Plans”, clients will identify a personalised pathway for moving forward and improving their current love and life happiness ratings. 

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The workbook is great and I would do this lesson again and again
  · 10 months ago.
When I picked up this book I was getting tired of running in the same circles that I have done all my life. I came from a troubled family of suicide and alcoholism and didn't put together that they were affecting the men I chose in my life because I THOUGHT I had gotten beyond it. I didn't realize that the care taker in me had just shifted gears and was never really happy because I wasn't choosing a soul mate, I was choosing someone I could help and take care of. I was ALWAYS looking for my knight in shining armor to rescue me and do for me what I was doing for everyone else but getting burned out at. I had avoided social settings and making my life whole and full in other areas of my life and this book enlightened me to see that. The workbook is great and I would do this lesson again and again because I think you can learn a lot from the book and this coaching again and again.
God is first in my life but He also wants us to have a WHOLE life, a HAPPY life and this book helps each individual see where they are lacking and what patterns they unconsciously put into place.
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made me realise there is hope and room for growth.
  · 10 months ago.
A very powerful book which helps you look at yourself honestly, but in a very gentle, loving, forgiving way. I somehow found myself buying your book on Amazon.
I had thought I was going to buy ‘the power of now’ because I found myself having a particularly bad day and was looking for something, anything. My kindle would not turn on, but miraculously it did the next day and instead I found myself the proud owner of your book and, although that was only two days ago, I have no idea how I found it. It’s all a blank.
However, I read the book, joined the group and today had the Life & Love Reading. I had gotten so low I had no optimism left but things you told me have now made me realise there is hope and room for growth.
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I met TJ at the Get Ready For Love Workshop as a friend had a spare ticket and was so impressed with the shift that I had between the workshop and going home and reading TJ's book!

I reached out to her afterwards as I thought her work would help me get over the loss of my mum by trying her hypnotherapy sessions. I had never really heard of Cognitive Hypnotherapy but once TJ explained the principle I thought it sounded like exactly what I needed.

TJ is so easy going and made me feel completely at ease. Having lost a parent herself I felt a connection with her that someone who can understand grief can share. The session was like a relief, I was able to remove some of the feelings I had that I felt were blocking me and keeping me in a place I didn’t want to be in. I feel like I have a way to visualise and cope with the moving on part of grieving. 

I also felt like that I needed a guide in order to move on with the love in my life and not do it with fear or from a place where I am stuck with negative emotions that I couldn’t process.

I have already recommended TJ to several single friends who for varying reasons are stuck in a place where they feel love is a negative thing and a disappointment. I am hoping that they will connect with her and she can show them alongside the very practical thinking in her book, that by learning to understand themselves better they have the ability to move on and find love.... firstly in themselves and then hopefully in someone else who is right for them.
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Life & Love Reading was like a universal mirror reflecting my soul
  · 10 months ago.
TJ’s Life & Love Reading was like a universal mirror reflecting my soul and all points were accurate and reflected where I’m at and I’m happy to recommend a Life & Love Reading with TJ to friends as I got a lot out of the reading.
Thanks TJ for guiding me gently to the actions I need to take to move to that next step.
I will be back with an update soon as I move forward on life’s journey to more love and joy
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“The things that the course uncovered for me about the way I do love and the reason behind why I do what I do was life changing for me”.

Where do I start… Once I had registered for the Get Ready For Love online course it took me far too long to get round to actually completing it.

In hindsight, quite why I am not sure as it is one of the most meaningful and progressive things I have accomplished to date.

It has taken me some time to get my head around what it has bought up for me but TJ has been there every step of the way with support, guidance and most importantly knowledgeable advice.

I often look at TJ and ask myself “how on earth does she know that, I didn’t even know that” but she does, and actually, she always does. TJ was born to heal souls and point lost ones back in the right direction. If you ever have the pleasure of meeting her you will know that, just as I do. It is her gift and the course is a small part of all the things she has to offer people in a place of darkness or development.

The course has given me a deeper understanding of who I am and who I want as my soul mate. It is an invaluable tool and I think that it should be mandatory for every women to complete the course at least!!

Thank you TJ for the course, for the book, for your gift
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